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But the alternative is not much better.

For the past 6 months or so, I've been experiencing lower back pain, low grade, chronic, and intermittent. I thought it was muscle spasms (typical for me), so I went to physical therapy for 8 weeks, and nothing really improved. With that result, it was probably a nerve problem, so I went to the family doctor. I also told her about my numbness in my finger tips, a result of a bad muscle spasm a few years ago, and that the numbness never went away. We decided x-rays and MRI's on both regions were the next step. The reports came in, and here's what the family doctor said:
"You shouldn't be able to walk with this diagnosis". Huh? Both areas are damaged with arthritis and closure of the spinal cavity. Uh-oh... Off to the orthopedist.

I had my meeting with him today, and he said "You shouldn't be ambulatory with what I am seeing". Huh? He said the condition typically included more severe symptoms that I was reporting. Surgery was not recommended as yet: wait until it cannot be handled any other way. Sub-dermal injections are a possibility, with a small chance of damage, but relief may last only days to months. Shit. We then discussed my conditions (including muscle spasms which are definitely related to the stenosis of the spine), and the fact that I've been managing the condition for several years unknowingly with exercises and PT. He told me that the condition will most likely degrade with time, and there are certain symptoms to be aware of that indicate a worsening, including some that I'm already experiencing. We agreed that I should continue what I'm doing (taking it easy, specific exercises), add Celebrex, and avoid any twisting motions, vertical stresses, or anything that can jar the spine (e.g. running...good! I hate running!).

Looks like my days of restoring cars are over, but I can continue the harness work without issues.

So...like AZPete, I'm damaged goods, and pretty much will have to give up large car repair efforts. There must be something in the Panama City water....

Damned Curse of Midlife comes back to its owner. :rant
 
Sorry to hear Randy ...but like you said the alternative is worse. The most important question is can you still attempt to sing Karaoke ?? :shrug
 
I wish you were closer to Dr. Spencer at the spine center at Park Ridge Illinois to get an opinion--he does mainly minimum invasive surgery on lower back--he ground/removed growth on my wife and he worked on a ruptured disc on me--nothing but good --I have referred 2 other people to him with good results. And as for golden years, we were lied to. Good luck and get several opinions. But on the bright side the local sheep ranchers can breath a sigh of relief---their livestock is safe!
 
I bet it is the YJ that is really doing the help....I know my CC really makes the pain issues easier to deal with.
 
I'm sorry, Sweetie. Get more opinions, and find someone who can help. You need to dance at my wedding.
 
Should we all get together and build you a Binford approved wheel chair?

Sorry to hear the news, as Laurie said though, talk to a few more people!
 
Randy, remember way back when I told you wearing a mankini was like discovering the fountain of youth? Well you should have listened. Nevertheless, if and when I'm able to peel it off me (pretty wedged up there right now) I'll send it to you. Maybe even wash it before I ship it.

But before I ship it, you need to sign a realease paper saying that your heart can take all the hot chicks chasing you when wearing it.
 
"cmayna" said:
Randy, remember way back when I told you wearing a mankini was like discovering the fountain of youth? Well you should have listened. Nevertheless, if and when I'm able to peel it off me (pretty wedged up there right now) I'll send it to you. Maybe even wash it before I ship it.

But before I ship it, you need to sign a realease paper saying that your heart can take all the gay guys chasing you when wearing it.
 
"Laurie S." said:
I'm sorry, Sweetie. Get more opinions, and find someone who can help. You need to dance at my wedding.

I would probably cry like a baby for a number of reasons at your wedding.

Actually, the pain I currently have is modest and bearable, so long as I don't do heavy lifting or hard work. To tell you the truth, I didn't think the pain was that worrisome: more of an annoyance than anything else. Hearing the diagnosis and prognosis was more of a downer than anything else.

And yes, alcohol was recommended, particularly in high dosages. We even discussed getting a handicapped parking tag, but I'll decline it for now (like the mankini, thank you very much!). And Nick? Sure, you can get the lift, but over my dead body!

Does the Binford chair come with heated seats? Vibrating massage?
 
Sorry to hear ,Hope everything works out, I'll need more advice, Especially when i get into wiring-(I hate wiring) Dont kick the bucket yet!! :wth
 
Hi Randy
Well bro , I know what you're talking about.Have troubles with legs and lower spine.
A professor told me I had Post Polio Syndrom and that is was affecting my legs and lower spine.
I am out of work for almost a month now and have contacted another prof to have a second opinion.
My days of tackle big project are probably over too.
I already am thinking of selling my convertible project which I have for over 17 years now and have collecting parts for it over that period of time.
Randy , you are not alone and I feel your pain . Really.
Hang in there and like S8NS 289 said : Don't kick the bucket yet !!!
 
Look hear ya ole goat, stop the whining and carrying on and get up and handle your business! Yeah right..... Sorry to hear your troubles Randy. I hope your able to find a way to maintain things. Here's hoping your feeling better! :beer
 
Gee man that stinks. Hang in there!

Would a certain kind painting help take your mind off any pain/discomfort? :confu LOL
 
Feel better. What is it with getting old. At least your doctor didn't ask you "If I told you you couldn't work on your car, Would you sell it to my husband?", To which I replied "NO". She then proceeded to tell me I needed exercise and a bunch of other stuff.

Get a second opinion, It sounds like what my wife was told back in 99. Surgery and she was back up and running in about 6 weeks.
 
"B67FSTB" said:
Hi Randy
Well bro , I know what you're talking about.Have troubles with legs and lower spine.
A professor told me I had Post Polio Syndrom and that is was affecting my legs and lower spine.
I am out of work for almost a month now and have contacted another prof to have a second opinion.
My days of tackle big project are probably over too.
I already am thinking of selling my convertible project which I have for over 17 years now and have collecting parts for it over that period of time.
Randy , you are not alone and I feel your pain . Really.
Hang in there and like S8NS 289 said : Don't kick the bucket yet !!!

PPS here, too, but you can't let it stop you. I've been fighting it for more than 20 years now and winning, at least most of the time. Went diving today and had too thin a wetsuit on in 58 degrees water and the cold took out my muscle strength. Won't stop me, we're going diving again tomorrow. :)

Never give in or up.
 
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