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Chick Flicks

"Sacbill" said:
That's why there's a question of whether or not Dave actually said it. :craz j/k
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You guys actually read the edited/condensed version. I figured I'd lose most of you if I rambled on too long.
 
Dave,
Its sounds like you've been down this road before!!! I'll give it a shot.

Does that same apply to her wanting me to cut out the farting?
 
"daveSanborn" said:
If "she wants" you to watch her chick flick movies.... then I suggest that you either do... or find a GF that doesn't care if you watch them or not. If you're serious about this particular girl and would like to see her stick around, think of it as "relationship building". You probably won't enjoy the movie, but that's not the point. The point is that you've shown her that you care enough about her to set aside 2 hours of your time to do what she wants. Acts like these go a long way in building a strong relationship. This doesn't mean that you can give her the green light to schedule a weekend marathon full of her movies, but as previously stated, sound relationships are built upon give and take.... it's VERY rare that you'll find that perfect someone who wants to do exactly everything that you want to do.... until that time/girl comes along (if ever) you'll have to find a balance of give and take that suits both of you.

Try this.... at the next opportunity, YOU, not her, initiate the watching of a chick flick movie. When she looks at you like you're crazy, tell her that you want to watch it because you know she likes these kind of movies and even though you're not particularly interested in the movie, you are interested in spending time with her doing things that she likes to do.

What this comes down to really is "compatability". The GF/dating process should be nothing more than a compatability test. "Am I comfortable giving her with what she's giving me in return and is she also happy?" If you're answering "no" to this question, then the relationship is usually doomed to eventually fail.

Good luck Johhny. I know you're enjoying your bachelorhood, but at the same time have thoughts of settling down and starting a family. It's a tough transition to make and usually isn't easy for anyone.
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WHO ARE YOU, AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH DAVE??? :eek :eek :eek
 
Does that same apply to her wanting me to cut out the farting?
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You're going to have to decide where to draw your own line, but openly farting during a dating relationship probably isn't going to score you any points with any girl worth marrying.
 
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